Good day people.. This is how I start another article of mine..
You know sometimes life feels unfair? How cruel life can be? I think that most of us have been through this phase which leads us thinking – what should I do? How do I cope with this situation? For me the life savior is to go out on a cloudy/rainy day and just let all my bad thoughts out. Just to think how to fix things which I want to be fixed. I go out, I find a place where I can think and I think, I write them down and try to believe in them.
I know that it may sound stupid but for me it works. I try to take myself to the stage where I start to believe in myself, in my work, in my achievements, in the way I think, in the way that I live. People really like to take control of others and that is what I have learned. The past two years I have learned that I am the only one who is able to control my life, to control the way that I live and to manage things in my life. It is hard because we, people, are so weak, we let others bring us down and then we feel like rubbish. It is time to stop that! That is what I said to myself and to this day – I still remind this to myself and, to be honest, I have become a lot stronger.
This particular day I was feeling quite unsure about my life, about the decisions that I make, about my future – what I want it to look like and what I need to do in order to achieve what I want. It comes slowly, with patience. I learn day by day – everything comes for a reason and we have to work for it and deserve it. If you have a dream – don’t let yourself down! You can do it! You are strong! You are beautiful! You are smart! Always remember that!
In the end we all should know how to pick ourselves up and smile! Smile saves the day! Don’t forget to teach yourself things that you already know – write them down, make a notebook where you can stick down your thoughts and plans! And in a while – go through them to remind yourself what you want and that you can achieve that!
Have a fabulous day, my loves!
Photos by Nils Butēvics